It may not involve physical weapons but there has been a silent gender war over the centuries. Each gender wants to be seen as the most superior and no one is ready to give up the fight. Men are special no doubt, they also play very essential roles in the development of the world’s economy, agreed. But women were specially created with specific abilities unique to them alone, although the society sees this differently when it comes to equating women on various social platforms.
In a world where men earn more than women and where females are completely under-represented on managerial boards, it is nice to know there are many advantages women have on their hands. Some feminists are really not happy about a recent study that discovered that men throw better than women, although a lot of women have been doing well in javelin and discus games in the Olympics. Nevertheless, several studies have proven that women have some amazing abilities that men lack.
At home, school or workplace, there are so many examples to site that can neutralize the bias towards men being a superior being to women. As much as the society tries its best to help men live above their egoistic nature, one cannot ignore the fact that women are far better in doing a lot of things as compared to men. A woman once said “we have got nothing against males but they should accept we are better.” Well, here are twenty-one solid facts that explains who is winning the war and why.
1. Women Have Sharper Memory
A woman can remember her first step as a toddler on her 50th birthday party. She remembers the moment she first met someone, she also remembers what actress wore what in which movie, which song breaks her heart anytime its playing on the radio, she even knows the names of all the presenter on her favorite shows. Also, studies have suggested that young girls can memorize more words than boys their age. It is also believed that a woman’s memory power gets better with age, while that of the men does not have any significant improvement.
2. Women are Better Communicators
Let it be known that when a women walks into a place, life is restored by her presence. Although people often blame women for talking too much. Well, women do talk sense most of the times. There are studies that indicate that women speak three times more than men do in a day. A women easily airs her views, rationally and straight to the point. We are not concerned about the once in a while little gossips among friends but wise talks in general. In the book called The Female Mind, Dr Luan Brizendine, a female psychiatrist, says women devote more brain cells to talking than men. Science has also proved that a woman’s brain can process and analyse a lot more words, feelings and emotions than a man’s brain can. She understands better and can communicate a lot better.
3. Women are Better with Finances
A study of 100,000 portfolios showed that women’s investment returns outperform men’s, 18 percent to 11 percent. This could be because women are typically more cautious with their investment decisions and think longer term. When your personal bank officer is a woman, every single dime leaving the bank will be questioned by her. Women are more careful, more attentive and more guarded about finances. They do not lavish money, or invest foolishly, and as such their level of financial losses are lower as compared to that of men. This is probably the reason why households in India run smoothly than that of other countries – these homes are run by the women who manage all household budgets.
4. Women Eat Healthier
A survey of more than 14,000 people, conducted by the University of Minnesota, showed that women choose far healthier foods than men. While men are more likely to eat anything as long as it fills the stomach. Men are also known to eat stale food, they do not mind eating an overnight leftover meal the next morning without microwaving it. A woman might puke at the thought of eating soured egg, but for a guy – sour tastes better.
5. Women Handle Stress Better
It is agreed that women sob and cry whenever they have challenges, but that doesn’t stop them from being more rational thinkers than men.Once the tears dry up, women can think more clearly and can stay more composed in times of adversity. There is a scientific proof to this fact. Three hormones – cortisol, epinephrine, and oxytocin, play a role in stress management and are responsible for men and women reacting differently. When a woman encounters stress, the levels of cortisol and epinephrine rises, elevating blood pressure and blood sugar levels. This is where oxytocin comes to play. It promotes a calming effect lowering the levels of stress hormones. In men, oxytocin is secreted in smaller amounts as compared to women and hence this puts men on the shorter end of the stick, when it comes to stress management. More so, women have high levels of estrogen in their bloodstream which blocks the negative impact of stress on the brain.
6. Women are More Hygienic
Even without science, this fact is obvious. Women bath more often, wash more often, clean the house more often, shave more often and smell better because they can’t stand dirt. A study from San Diego State University of offices across the U.S. found that men’s desks and offices have more germs than women’s. Researchers discovered that men had anywhere from 10 to 20 percent more bacteria in their spaces than women, clearly, women are more hygienic. Also, women love to walk into their house and see it clean – its one way they send good signals to the brain.
7. Women are Better at Sustaining Relationships
Women often are not scared of commitment, they don’t suffer from commitment-phobia like men do. This is due to the psychological benefit gifted to her by nature to continually uphold her relationships. Women generally want their relationships to work and so they strive to make that happen. Hormones also play an important role in making women more sensitive and perceive the needs of a relationship better than men. Men have as much as 20 times more testosterone in their systems than women. This makes men typically more aggressive, dominant and more focused on the physical aspects of relationship – sex, and not the relationship itself.
8. Women are Great at Appreciating People
Men are not half as good at thanking people as ladies are. According to social psychologist, Dr Dina McMillan, women are more likely to recognize hard work and shower appraisals. Another study by George Mason University published in Journal of Personality backs this up, it found that women are better at expressing gratitude. This is why people tend to assist women more than men because women are more likely to say “thank you” and mean it.
9. Women are Smarter
According to a study of IQ tests from around the world, women have higher intelligent quotients than men. Researcher James Flynn checked out the IQs of people from the U.S., Europe, Canada, New Zealand, Argentine, and Estonia, and found that women scored above their counter parts. Despite the fact that women do not take up as many leadership positions as men, women are actually more intelligent on the average.
10. Women are Better Parents
A woman is naturally built to be a mother. Even if she already has a child or not she acts like one. If you want to compare a child who grew up with his mother and that who grew up with his father, the difference in behavior and turn out is usually clear. A woman is sensitive to the needs of her child, she senses his moods and knows when he is hungry or angry, this why more children tend to be closer to their mum’s than their dads.
11. Women are Good at Multitasking
Have you ever considered what makes a woman do all the house chores and most of them at the same time? She is great at multitasking. A woman can be rocking her baby, stirring oatmeal on the fire, and still speaking with a client over the phone, without faulting at any point. Men can only think about managing either their home or office, one at a time. This is because, while the male brain uses specific parts of one hemisphere or the other to accomplish specific tasks. The female brain is more diffused and utilizes significant portions of both hemispheres for a variety of tasks. So obviously, women are wired with more complex wire works than men and that makes them a better gender.
12. Women Learn Better and Faster
A study done at the University of Georgia and Columbia University found that women are better learners – basically, they have a better approach to expanding their minds. According to researchers, women are more flexible, attentive, and organized. So at work, they are more likely to understand the task at hand better than a male co-worker, and they are more productive to due of this fact.
13. Women are Better Leaders
A leadership development consultancy firm conducted a survey of 72,680 leaders. These leaders were judged on 360 evaluations, which also considered the opinions of those working for them, with them and their own bosses. At every level, women were rated as better overall managers, and not just by their evaluation grade, but in the opinion of their bosses and co-workers too. The best leaders share traits that a lot of women possess. They have a lot consideration for people who work under them, they have their eyes on the goal but never forget about the people they’re working with and they have a strong sense of honor.
14. Women Evolve Better
You might pass a female classmate on the road after ten years and not recognize her, but an old male friend looks the same even after two decades. This is just the normal phenomenon, a recent study revealed another side to this facts. After following more than 2,000 people through four decades of life, the study showed that attractive women had 16 percent more children than average-looking women, and that beautiful people are 36 percent more likely to have a daughter as their firstborn. All those gorgeous daughters mean more beautiful women than in past generations. None of such discoveries have been made about the male gender.
15. Women Graduate More Often
We already know that female enrollment is higher than male, but the Department of Education’s statistics reveal that men are also less likely than women to graduate and get their bachelor’s degrees. Men are also more likely to take longer than five years to complete their degree because they lose focus along the line while trying to get short cuts to making money.
16. Women Survive car accidents more often
According to a study done by Carnegie Mellon University, men are 77 percent more likely to die in a car accident than women. This is sad but true. A woman has a lot to live for and won’t give up even on her death bed. Guys, having heard this fact, do well to drive slowly and always wear your seat-belt.
17. Women are Better Companions
A Mind survey of 2,000 people revealed that women are far more likely than men to talk through their problems, rather than men who are more likely to bottle things up. Fifty-three percent of women talk to their friends about what they are passing through, as opposed to 29 percent of men. Women learn to multitask from a young age and to take responsibility for other people, this equips them with the skills needed to handle difficult situations with ease.
18. Women Get Sick Less
Women have stronger immune systems. Following the fact that women eat healthier food than men, they fall ill less often too. A study by McGill University found oestrogen helps girls fight off infections. What has scientists been saying about testosterone with regards to fighting diseases?
19. Women Interview Better
A new study at the University of Western Ontario found that women are better at handling the stress of a job interview. Women spend more time before an interview trying to get all the questions well structured, getting their face powered and all of that, but when it is time for the actual interview, they do a lot better session than a male rival.
20. Women are Better Teachers
A woman has a lot of patience and that is a major characteristics of a teacher. She takes her time to explain to her students, and she sees all of them as her own children. The kind part of a woman will not allow her punish her students severely like a male would for failing a particular course, rather she corrects the child immediately and appropriately.
21. Women Live Longer
Have you ever wondered why the world has more widows than widowers? More husbands die before their wives. Among the world’s population of those who are over 100 years old, 85 percent are women, according to the New England Centenarian Study. In general, women continue to live five to 10 years longer than men as well. Women eat better meals, stress less, think less, work smart, exercise more to stay fit and sexy for their husbands, and so all these factors contributes to them having longer life spans than the males. Having known all these facts about women, it’s now clearer and indisputable who runs the world.